Photos by Michelle Dorman Photography
Dress: Comme Toi (similar) | Necklace: Stella & Dot | Bracelet: J.Crew (similar) | Rings: Gorjana (similar here & here) | Watch: Marc by Marc Jacobs| Shoes: Cobb Hill (similar) |Lipstick: Bite Beauty (color Moka)
I started this blog because of my love for fashion and the need for creativity. Prior to making an industry switch to healthcare, I worked in fashion for over 10 years. When I left fashion, I missed the environment and decided to create Lace & Pearls. With blogging, I have a new-found confidence, improved my writing, and have made some awesome friendships. For my blogiversary I will be sharing what I’ve learned, and on Thursday what I’ve accomplished.
What I’ve Learned
- Blogging Community Overall the blogging community is pretty friendly. I have made connections with people all over the world and have been fortunate to connect with other bloggers in my area. I am grateful for these relationships. Having support in this industry is the best food for your soul and finding people with similar interests is life-changing.
- On the flip side, everyone is not going to like you, and that’s ok. If you follow someone who doesn’t reciprocate your friendship it can be hard to not take it personal. You can let it roll off your back and continue to follow them, or move on.
- Writing is Hard I struggle with this every day, and as much as I want to be good at it, it is something that I continue to work on. I might never master it, but hopefully I will be better off then when I started.
- Blogging is Time Consuming Blogging requires you to wear a lot of hats (writer, photographer, social media guru), doing all of these things can be extremely time consuming. I am trying to find a balance. I primarily want to be cognizant of my family and friends and always make time for them.
- So Much To Learn There is a lot to learn about blogging. I find it to be overwhelming. I am constantly wanting the community to pause so I can play catch-up. The best thing to do when I feel this way is to start off small, and focus on learning one thing at a time.
- Network Reach out to those who you admire and the result may surprise you. I have done this several times and have been able to connect with some awesome people. That is not to say that the outcome will always be rosy, but it’s definitely worth putting yourself out there.
Come back on Thursday for the second half of this post and to read about what I’ve accomplished and plans for the future. Thanks so much for reading!
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jodi - a brash attitude says
October 6, 2015 at 2:25 amHappy 1st blogiversary! I love your dress, so pretty on you! 🙂
herrmj says
October 6, 2015 at 5:31 pmThanks Jodi!
fashionandstylepolice says
October 6, 2015 at 2:46 amCongrats on your 1st blogiversary. Here is to many more years.
http://fashionandstylepolice.com
herrmj says
October 6, 2015 at 5:32 pmThanks so much!
valentina ioana says
October 6, 2015 at 2:47 amlovely pictures! congrats for you anniversary!
http://www.eager4fashion,com
herrmj says
October 6, 2015 at 5:32 pmThanks Valentina.
Anne says
October 6, 2015 at 3:43 amCongratulations! Love the outfit and the crown of course! Any excuse for some nice head gear 🙂
xx Anne
herrmj says
October 6, 2015 at 5:33 pmHa ha, thanks Anne! You’re very sweet.
Amelia Vesper says
October 6, 2015 at 11:01 amYay!!! Happy one year blogiversary! These pictures are so ridiculously cute. You are workin’ that crown! Everything you’ve learned about blogging rings very true. There’s so much more I want to learn too, but you’re right, it takes SO much time! Perhaps one day we will be full time bloggers 🙂
Congrats on a fabulous first year!
xo Mil
https://southbynorthwestblog.wordpress.com/
herrmj says
October 6, 2015 at 5:46 pmThanks Mil! You always have a kind word. Maybe I should rock the crown more often. 😉
Thank you! There are so many things that I wanted to share but I tried to keep it high level. Glad these learnings rang true. It’s always nice to know that you’re not alone.
I can’t imagine blogging full time, but I do like the sound of that! That would be awesome. Maybe we will have the opportunity someday. 😁
Amelia Vesper says
October 6, 2015 at 6:57 pmIt’s definitely fun to think about! I mean, imagine all the free stuff J. Crew would send us 😉
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 6:47 amHa ha! Unfortunately, J.Crew doesn’t seem to really collaborate with bloggers, but maybe they will in the future. Crossing fingers. 😁
juliannaclairelynch says
October 6, 2015 at 5:43 pmHappy Anniversary! I LOVE your blog and this post is so honest and true!
xx Julianna
http://www.blushandcamo.com
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 6:48 amThanks Julianna!
Margaret says
October 6, 2015 at 6:24 pmYou are so cute.Happy 1st Anniversary!!!
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 6:48 amThanks Mom. 😘
andy says
October 6, 2015 at 7:56 pmSo cute :)))
http://sbr-fashion-fashion.blogspot.com/
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 6:48 amThank you!
Tina says
October 6, 2015 at 10:51 pmHappy one year blogversary! You look so adorable in these photos and they really portray your bubbly personality! Excited to see the 2nd portion of what you learned from blogging!
Tina
http://www.justatinabit.com
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 6:58 amThanks Tina! You’re so sweet. I appreciate you taking the time to comment, it means so much! 😘
vivian | t w o w a r d says
October 7, 2015 at 6:02 amHappy one year blogiversary Asa! This is such a lovely post! Love those fun photos and you look so chic in that dress! And I can totally feel you! Blogging is sooo time consuming! I never thought it would take so much time in order to create great content 😛 But girl, you did a great job! I can learn a lot from you, too:) Hope you have an amazing week and I can’t wait for tomorrow’s post! 😉 xo Vivian
http://www.twoward.com
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 7:03 amThanks Vivian! You’re the sweetest. I appreciate the kind words and lovely compliments.
I’m glad that you feel the same about blogging. It is so time intensive!
You’re so kind Vivian, thank you! If anything I can learn from you when it comes to blogging. Your blog is top notch and your classic style is to die for! 😀
Dana @ IveGotCake says
October 7, 2015 at 11:57 amAwwww you beautiful woman you!
Happy Anniversary Asa, one the the kindest, open-hearted and sincere people I’ve met in their Blogoverse.
I’m so happy to have met you through your blog, your energy is felt in every picture and it’s always positive.
We need more people like you out here.
Thank you Asa for sharing yourself with the rest of us. Cheers to another beautiful year of blogging <3
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 11:13 amThanks Dana! You crack me up. ☺️
Aww, such a sweet and kindhearted comment. Thank you! Wow. You made my week I can’t thank you enough. I feel fortunate to have connected with you too. 😘
WhatWouldVWear says
October 7, 2015 at 12:41 pmHappy 1 Year Blog Anniversary, Asa! Such a sweet post coming from the sweetest person I know! I’m with you, blogging is a lot of work but you’ve done a wonderful job, dear heart! And yes, the blogging community is overall a great place but of course are the ones that aren’t so “nice”. It’s always best to have them roll of your back. Sometimes envy is behind their not so nice actions anyway!
So glad we met, and I cannot wait to see more of you and your blog!
Happy Wednesday!
xoxo, Vanessa
http://www.WhatWouldVWear.net
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 7:02 pmAww, thank you Vanessa! You’re too kind. I hope one day we can connect in person. You’re such a sweetheart. Thank you for the encouraging words! 😘
aditi oberoi malhotra says
October 9, 2015 at 1:46 pmHappy 1 Year Blog Anniversary, Asa!
-Adi xxo
http://www.fancycorrectitude.com
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 7:04 amThanks Adi!
Dāsha says
October 15, 2015 at 9:35 amHappy Blogiversary! Sorry I’m a lil late to the party. Great shoes by the way.
Dasha
http://windycitywardrobe.com
herrmj says
October 15, 2015 at 7:05 pmThanks Dasha! I appreciate. You’re not too late, I still like to hear. Thanks for the sweet compliment.
Grace says
November 2, 2015 at 6:39 pmHappy anniversary, sorry it’s late.
asaherrman says
November 3, 2015 at 9:51 pmIt’s never too late. Thanks so much!